There are many organisations that can assist parents with dealing with the children after separation.
What do we tell them?
How will they cope?
These organisations offer counselling, courses for parents and other services targeted at parents and children.
One publication worth reading is “What about the children?” by Relationships Australia that offers advice and information to help you communicate with your children.
A copy of the publication can be found at www.relationships.org.au/relationship-advice/publications/pdfs/what-about-the-children.pdf